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The Reverse Recovery is the better, counterintuitive way of healing from a narcissistic ex.
We focus on what we want first, like gaining confidence, strength and joy...
And then reverse-engineer those goals in an actionable 7-step system so our success is practically guaranteed.
Without constantly thinking about the ex, unhelpful therapists & loving the "inner child" more.
High-achieving career women know that they want peace and freedom.
They just don't know HOW to get there.
But what happens if you DID know how?
It's easy—if you already know the goal...
Then all you have to do is figure out how to get there.
And we do this with you in 3 key steps:
Take our assessment to discover your unique Relationship Trauma Type.
The way we seek out love, connection, and safety with narcissistic men.
Follow 7 easy, simple steps to reverse the trauma and get to freedom.
Finish within 2 hours or every day for 7 days.
Feel anxiety melt away and get back your confidence, strength and joy.
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"He's broken me."
That's what Emily said, when she came to us.
She had 10 years with her narcissistic, selfish and manipulative husband.
And a short-lived 1 year with a spiteful diagnosed narcissist.
And when that guy walked out, all she could do was sit on the floor and cry.
Because, apparently, it was her fault he cheated.
She was "too sensitive."
She was "the narcissist."
Emily is the Managing Partner of a 6-figure healthcare company along with her ex-husband.
After a ton of drama over their assets, she was a shell of her former driven self.
And she was done with feeling so low.
Now Emily is a fixer.
But what truly differentiates her is that she's a fixer with AMBITION.
Like many of our women, Emily researched everything she could about narcissism and Machiavellianism.
"It was like I had a PhD in narcissism," she joked.
She pursued self-help books. She tried numerous therapists.
She did Reiki and meditation.
And like many of our women, nothing actually worked.
But the moment we told her:
She woke up the next morning without a trace of anxiety!
You see...
If you're a fixer with ambition...
You need goals.
You need action.
You need a strategy catered to your exact personality.
Emily knew she needed to get over him, fast.
She wanted to wake up and just not care anymore.
See, when she knew WHERE she wanted to be.
She knew the GOAL.
All we needed was to figure out how to get there.
And that's where the Reverse Recovery comes in.
When I was a project manager in a Fortune 500 company, I had to oversee the big picture to make sure we were hitting key targets.
So, we reverse-engineered our goals.
And that's exactly what we did for Emily with the Reverse Recovery.
The result?
She got over her angry, selfish ex, whom she was deeply deeply in love with, faster than she ever thought possible!
WITHOUT going on Tinder, dealing with crippling anxiety, venting her friends' ears off or unhelpful therapist sessions.
It was the best feeling ever.
And you can absolutely do the same.
After 8 years helping 13,000 women get over narc trauma...
...we've refined the "reversal" strategy to just 7 actionable steps...
...delivered over 7 short days (or finish it all in just 2 hours).
See, once you understand your distinct way of seeking out love, connection and safety from men...
—or what we call the Relationship Trauma Type—
and use our system to reverse it...
...your anxiety will start melting away, your self-worth will grow...
...you'll gain the confidence to finally let him go...
...and finally be able to focus on your personal and professional success.
Here's how you can join us in the next 2 min:
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If you're curious to know how this works...
HERE'S THE SECRET:
Driven career women aren't ambitious for no reason.
They are ambitious because they want a financially secure, stable and overall good life.
For their children. For their partners.
A life that's the complete opposite of their traumatic childhood.
A life that they were robbed of since they were born.
By narcissistic, toxic or absent parents.
And these accomplished women truly, deeply believed they had found "the one."
Until he wasn't.
And just like that, he brings to surface every self-doubt, every crippling fear and anxiety we've ever had.
That we're the narcissist ourselves (not true.)
That we can never have true love (also not true.)
That we're not good enough (definitely not true too!)
There are 3 types of narcissists who woo accomplished women:
All these types break us down bit by bit.
The HIN (Haplessly Incompetent Narc) will romance you, then leech and discard.
The CSN (Capable Sexy Narc) will impress you, then be passive-aggressive and blindside.
The ISB (Intelligent SoftBoi) will soften you with his vulnerability, but then weaponizes everything and subtly punishes.
Many of my clients have tried it all to heal...
...to regain their sense of self-worth and confidence...
...while purging narcissistic trauma for good.
And although some of these methods did help...
...most completely didn't work, or didn't make much difference.
And there's a reason why.
The reality is, there's a much deeper, rooted issue.
One that causes all of my clients to stay stuck in self-destructive cycles.
That is?
Your Relationship Trauma Type.
Blue Fawn, White Fawn, Red Fawn, Pink Flight, or Double Fawn.
I have observed that every woman I have worked with has experienced significant trauma in past relationships.
Unfortunately, these negative experiences tend to get become deeply rooted in their unconscious mind.
Causing endless cycles of anxiety, complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD), and depression.
Over time, these cycles shape our unique way of connecting with others, attaching ourselves to people, and feeling safe.
But in a toxic relationship with extreme highs and lows...
...that then becomes the relationship trauma type.
Without knowing exactly what your unique trauma type is...
...it's like throwing spaghetti at the wall, hoping something sticks.
This is why most of my clients who try therapy still keep getting hurt by selfish, angry men.
They are always trying to solve the symptoms of the problem...
...not the cause.
To heal, you have to fix the CAUSE of the problem.
And here's another thing:
No one ever talks about a solid strategy.
There's no accountability. There's no structure.
That's because healers are generally not strategists.
In corporate, any businesswoman worth her salt knows that you always need a business plan to solve a business problem.
Why not do the same to trauma from a narc?
In the Reverse Recovery, we work backwards to get to a result that you want.
So here's exactly how this works:
Immediately after you join the RR, we get you to sign up for our Accountability System, where you will get text reminders and email directly to you.
Then, follow these 3 easy steps:
Busy career women don't have time to waste messing around with solutions to symptoms.
Hundreds of my clients have now gone through this process.
These are lawyers, entrepreneurs, doctors, managers, even therapists themselves.
All have told me that they've been through YEARS of therapy...
...only to feel completely understood and heard again after going through RR.
Now, it's your turn.
Stop letting the narcissist hold you back from greatness.
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The Reverse Recovery is a 7-step audio course where we reverse-engineer the steps of an ideal result, based on your Relationship Trauma Type, so that you heal much faster than traditional, time-consuming methods of healing.
Hiring a Top Therapist: $1,200 a month
Psychiatric Evaluation Session: $179
Reading all the Self-Help Books: $300
Total Value: $908
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You need a solid strategy that reverses the effects of a hurtful relationship, not more time, tears or talking it out to death.
Sometimes healing doesn't work unless you know how exactly YOU work.
So, you'll start by taking a complete assessment of 25-30 questions to determine your trauma type that is specific to women just like you who gave their all to an ex, only to have it throw back in their faces.
Find out more about the assessment and Trauma Types right here.
Well, instead of letting healing take its time and letting everything fall into place, we actually create the result that we want, set a date and make sure that our recovery fits into that timeframe.
We create our recovery plan around the TIMEFRAME and the RESULTS that we want, not have the timeframe or the results be determined by the recovery plan.
You're a busy woman who needs something quick, fast and extremely effective.
So the entire course is designed to run for only 7 days.
Not only that, you'll receive reminders every single day in your inbox to keep you on track.
Healing happens on a sprint, not dragged out month after month for years.
By this time next week, we're aiming to have you healed enough to actually start enjoying your life.
Every day, it'll feel as if you’re talking to me directly.
Every single day for 7 days, you will receive an email that opens up an audio recording and a simple action plan for the day.
Each audio is 10-15 mins long and each action plan consists of step-by-step instructions that should only take another 10-15 mins to complete.
Additionally, you'll be given access to exclusive video recordings of our live community walkthrough. We go even deeper into the trauma types and you'll get in-depth guidance to make the Reverse Recovery work for your specific trauma type.
The Relationship Trauma Type Assessment consists of questions that combine data from leading psychologists with data collected from speaking to over 4,000 women on the Steps to Happyness platform.
We look at your Trauma Type in CONTEXT, that is, in the circumstances surrounding a dramatic relationship with a man who was very hurtful to you.
We know the kind of pain that results from unrequited love, the chaos that ensues, and of course, the heartbreak that seems to go on forever.
The result? Something you can really relate to, that takes in account your unique beliefs and tendencies.
The Relationship Trauma Types are:
Blue Fawn, or #bluefawn
White Fawn, or #whitefawn
Red Fawn, or #redfawn
Pink Flight, or #pinkflight
Double Fawn, or #doublefawn
Deep Blue Fawn, or #deepbluefawn
Deep White Fawn, or #deepwhitefawn
Deep Red Fawn, or #deepredfawn
Deep Pink Flight, or #deeppinkflight
When you receive your Trauma Type, it'll be broken down for you:
e.g. if you receive the #deepwhitefawn trauma type, you'll get an analysis of "Deep," "White" and "Fawn". Same for "Double" and "Fawn" in #doublefawn.
Why the hashtags?
Because we want to start a CONVERSATION in the Get Over Him group, and the more you get out all these secret, shameful things that you feel, the less power it has over you.
No more meandering about trying to figure out why you feel the way you feel, we want to give you your specific Trauma Type so you can start healing and start LIVING.
STEP 1
Take the Relationship Trauma Type Assessment
STEP 2
Reverse-Engineer Your Result So You Can Heal
STEP 3
Feel Stronger, Softer, Confident and Powerful
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I know I can add immense value to your life, and unlike your ex, I’m willing to put my money where my mouth is.
I guarantee that if you go through all 7 steps in 7 days, follow all the action plans and implement them completely, you will feel a significant improvement in your healing.
Of course, we’re aiming far higher than that, but I want to do as much as possible so that signing up to the Reverse Recovery is a complete no-brainer.
*Participation conditions apply and are disclosed at bottom of this page.
It's a brand new way of rediscovering yourself, based on Cherlyn's data collected over 8 years, from over 13,000 women.
Combine it with the science of reverse-engineering, and we've got a fast, simple yet efficient way of conquering trauma.
Instead of talking, we're doing. Instead of waiting, we're speeding the hell up.
By also understanding your unique Trauma Type instead of going about a "one size fits all" methodology, we're going deeper than ever before.
Nothing will be quite as liberating as being able to say "SEE YA!" to a selfish, angry ex and the pain he caused.
Is it time to be serious about breaking the addiction to the ex? Is it time to stop talking it out? And actually heal so you can take back your power from emotionally draining people?
If it's time to be done... if you want a way straight to peace... join us.
Total Value: $908
Get the Reverse Recovery Method for just
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When I was getting over my angry, hurtful ex in 2015, I realized that I couldn't do healing the "normal way" anymore. Like many success-focused professional women, I needed a way out... FAST.
I needed a STRATEGY specific to what I was going through and specific to the MAN I was getting over.
After 8 years of combining science, high-performance tools, and energy modalities as a trauma specialist, I developed the Reverse Recovery Method. This is for any high-achieving women who want to clear trauma and shame effectively and quickly so that they can uplevel in life.
The "reversal" strategy has not only worked for me, but for 400+ members. Don't take it from me, look at the real results the members are generating on this page.
Heal and be whole again once more.
You get access to everything, forever, at a one-time price. 7-days is just the timeframe, especially during the Live version of the course, but it's not written in stone. You can choose to do the Reverse Recovery over the 7 days or a year (try not to take a whole year though!).
YES, you can!
Come on in if you're over the ex, just not over the pain and trauma he dealt you. A lot of our pain comes from unresolved emotional wounding in the past, and that will be our main focus.
Our pain also comes from people, so simply replace references to the ex with the names of people who have hurt you in the past.
In the Get Over Him Group, we're encouraging conversation around one's Trauma Type, and for that, we'll provide you with hashtags for your unique Trauma Type when you take the Relationship Trauma Type Assessment. So you'll be using something like #bluefawn or #pinkflight.
You'll also use #7dayrecovery when you want to talk about your recovery process in the Reverse Recovery course.
My mission is to create the fastest, most actionable, step-by-step course that BEATS any therapist, hands down.
That's why inside the Reverse Recovery, we PUSH you, every single day, to heal and feel hope and confidence again, in ways that you can commit to, that has actually worked on 300+ women just like you.
No more talking it out to death, exhausting friends and family with emotional drama or more "self-care" routines.
I'm so confident that I guarantee that if you implement all 7 days completely, and you don't feel a significant improvement in your healing, you don't pay. Simple as that.
It's just US$26.95 to join for life.
Question is, how would your life change if you felt FREE from narcissistic drama by this time next week?
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