STILL TRIGGERED BY TOXIC MEN?
Get Men Off Your Mind With The Sassiest, Most Beautiful EMDR Tool
Lovingly Built for Successful Career Women Who Refuse to Settle For Crumbs
Go From Men to Zen in 1 Min Flat
What if there was a tool that stops man-anxiety on the spot?
Meet the De-Men Your Brain EMDR
Our women run teams or businesses at work, only to have men run them in life.
Now, just like you, they're refusing to play small.
Hey, I'm Cherlyn.
For 9 years now, I've been helping high-achieving women break toxic relationship patterns.
You know how to build a career. Run a business. Lead a team.
But the men you're dating still have the power to ruin your whole day.
So I built the De-Men Your Brain EMDR.
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing.
You follow a moving object with your eyes...
While a "ping" sound alternates between your left and right ear...
This dual bilateral stimulation (visual + auditory) activates both brain hemispheres...
Which allows your brain to process the trigger instead of spiraling.
And I made it real pretty too.
Because gosh dang it, we deserve something nice after putting up with THOSE dates.
Unlike traditional EMDR therapy, there's...
No overanalyzing.
No talking to your inner child.
No questioning your childhood.
All You Do Is:
Step 1. Sit
Step 2. Watch
Step 3. Listen
Your nervous system calms down.
The trigger loses its grip.
You get back to your day (and dates!).
Backed by years of research and science.
Therapists have used it for decades to treat PTSD and trauma...
Now it's in your pocket for man-drama.
Use it if you're:
Use it online on your Desktop...
Or download it as a webapp on your mobile phone or tablet.
Resize, reposition, run at different speeds and different directions...
It's all customizable.
Try the guided sessions for different moods:
Perfect for when you want to key his car or you're overthinking at 2am
And these aren't meditation tracks you zone out to.
These are active rewiring sessions...
Where my voice coaches you through powerful reframes...
While bilateral stimulation does the heavy lifting.
Whip it out for any man-situation:
Did some jerk spring the "it's not you, it's me" on you at 2pm?
Handle it before your 3pm meeting.
Obsessing over why he didn't text back?
Detrigger before you send the desperate follow-up.
Anxiety about dating again?
Calm down so you can actually show up.
It's your brain's pocket bouncer... kicking toxic thoughts out in 60 secs flat.
Need to vent?
Turn on the IDGAF mode
One Session = Instant Relief
Multiple Sessions = The Trigger Loses Its Grip
Here's How It Works:
Your newest date texts
Your heart races
You open De-Men
Follow the moving guides across the screen
Hear my voice guide you through
Your nervous system chills the heck out
This isn't therapy.
It's instant emotional regulation for high-functioning career women who refuse to let men ruin their day.
FAQ
The De-Men Your Brain EMDR is for professional, high-achieving women who are done letting men mess up their day...
Whether you're post-breakup and still triggered by your ex...
Or dating again...
But your brain won't stop spiraling over every text, every silence, every "what did he mean by that?".
It's an on-the-spot tool for instant relief.
Unlike therapy, there's no talking, no analyzing, no digging into your childhood.
Unlike support groups, you don't have to explain yourself to anyone.
You just press play, follow the moving guides, hear my voice, and your nervous system calms the heck down.
This is fast detriggering, not months of processing.
Think of it as a treadmill for your brain... fast, effective, and built for women who don't have time to spiral.
You get instant, lifetime access to our full EMDR tool including guided sessions for different moods, Overthinking, Overwhelmed, Frozen/Numb, IDGAF, Triggered/Activated and Fed Up/Done.
Each mood has 3 intensity levels (45 sec, 2 min, or 5 min), from a Quick Zap to a Full System Reboot. 18 different guided sessions in total.
You also get a customizable manual mode where you can resize, reposition, set the scenes and run the EMDR at your own speed.
Use it online on a desktop or download it as a web app on your phone or tablet.
One payment. Lifetime access.
One session = instant relief for 90% of users. You'll feel calmer, more regulated, ready to handle your day.
But one session won't erase years of toxic patterns (just like one workout won't give you abs).
Use it multiple times per trigger, and you'll notice it losing its grip on you.
Some women feel a shift after the first session. Others need a few rounds. Your brain, your pace.
Yes... but ONLY if you're mentally done and planning your exit.
Most of my language is for women who've already left and are dating again, but the tool works the same way: calming your nervous system when he triggers you.
Whether he's an ex or still in your house, your brain doesn't know the difference. It just knows it's activated.
But if you're looking for ways to fix your relationship, stay married, or cope with him long-term... this IS NOT for you.
We help women break the cycle of toxic men, not manage it.
Yes! Sessions are 45 seconds to 5 minutes max. It doesn't get much better than that.
Use it between meetings...
Before a date...
At 2am when your brain won't shut up.
It's built for high-functioning women who need fast relief without clearing their whole schedule.
No journaling. No hour-long meditations. Just press play and get back to your life.
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